Thursday, September 18, 2008

First Tips To Talk To A Girl On The Phone

One of the main fears many guys have is how to talk to a girl on the phone without being nervous. There are several ways to do this without being nervous and generally if you follow these tips correctly you will not have any trouble when talking to any female or girl on the phone. This article explores several tips you can use when talking to a girl on the phone.

If you are going to talk to a girl for the first time make sure you are confident. The introduction part is always important so make sure you either introduce yourself again if you have not done so or ask her how she is. If you ask a girl how she is it makes her feel much confident and gives her an opportunity to answer your question without hesitating. Once you have introduced yourself and asked her basic questions you should consider asking her what she does and whether she enjoys what she is doing. Always be sympathetic towards her. For example, if she says something like “I'm really tired and stressed because of work” make sure you can offer her some form of support by saying “Don't worry, I hope everything works out”.

Another way to talk to a girl on the phone is to make her laugh. Girls love a guy who makes them laugh. This is because it makes them feel comfortable and gives them a chance to feel comfortable in talking to you. If you have had a bad tiring day then usually the girl can pick this up and she get the impression she is “boring you”. So make sure you feel confident and your attention span is 100% focused on her. Moreover, if you give her attention she is most likely to return the favour.

Finally, the best way to talk to a girl on the phone is to ask her lots of open questions. For example, asking her questions such as “what are your plans for the weekend” or “are you seeing someone right now?” will help the conversation flow smoothly. Make sure you answer her questions truthfully and avoid lying to her as girls can easily pick this up.

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